Making the move to a retirement community is a significant life decision—not just for your parent, but for you and your family as well. It often brings a mix of emotions, from uncertainty to hope. At Delmanor Aurora, we believe that open, respectful conversations are the best first step.
To help guide those discussions, we’ve put together 10 thoughtful questions to help you and your parent explore the journey together:
1. How Do You See Your Life in the Next Few Years?
This conversation starter helps your parent reflect on their vision for the future. Whether it’s maintaining independence, gaining more social connections, or simplifying day-to-day life, understanding their wishes early will shape the rest of the journey.
2. What Comes to Mind When You Think of Retirement Living?
Some people associate retirement communities with outdated perceptions. Encouraging your parent to visit a few modern communities, like Delmanor, can help dispel myths and highlight the vibrant, active lifestyle available today.
3. What’s Your Current Financial Picture?
It might feel awkward, but having an open dialogue about savings, pensions, or other income sources will ensure that you explore options that are both comfortable and financially sustainable.
4. Do You Need Help with Daily Routines?
Whether it’s medication reminders, housekeeping, or meal preparation, identifying areas where support would be appreciated can help determine the right level of care—Independent Living, Assisted Living, or Memory Care.
5. What Are Your Favourite Hobbies or Passions?
From fitness classes and art workshops to gardening or book clubs, choosing a retirement community that supports your parents’ lifestyle and passions can lead to a more joyful experience.
6. Are You Open to Living in a New Area?
Some older adults prefer staying close to family or familiar neighbourhoods, while others may embrace a change of scenery. Knowing this early helps narrow down ideal locations.
7. What Does Your Ideal Living Space Look Like?
Suite size, kitchen amenities, natural light, and privacy preferences can all play a role in feeling truly at home. Understanding these preferences will help tailor the search.
8. Do You Feel Safe at Home?
Falls and emergencies can become more concerning with age. If your parent hesitates or expresses concerns, it may be time to consider a safer, more supportive environment.
9. What Amenities Matter Most to You?
Would they love having access to a saltwater pool, chef-prepared meals, or a salon on-site? Knowing which perks bring joy and comfort helps refine your search.
10. Do You Have Any Questions or Concerns for Me?
Encouraging your parent to share their thoughts fosters trust and openness. You might be surprised at the insights they share or the fears they quietly carry.
When your parent is ready to take the next step, Delmanor is here to guide you.
If you’re exploring options in York Region, Delmanor Aurora offers the perfect blend of personalized Assisted Living, elegant surroundings, and compassionate support—all in the heart of a welcoming, close-knit community.
Whether your loved one needs a little help with daily routines or simply craves more connection and convenience, our dedicated team is here to ensure they live with comfort, dignity, and joy.
Book a personal tour today and experience the warmth, care, and peace of mind Delmanor Aurora provides.
